fix(destroy): associative remove methods require the instance, they don't accept queries, so fallback to manual destroy

src/associations/one-to-one.js

@@ -79,9 +79,9 @@ export const destroy = (server, a, b, names) => {
         }
       });
 
-      const method = getMethod(base, names.b, false, 'destroy');
-
+      const method = getMethod(base, names.b, false, 'get');
       const instance = await method({ where, include });
+      await instance.destroy();
 
       reply(instance);
     }